A decade in the past, an individual who walked right into a restaurant in Seoul and requested for “han myung-I” —a desk for one — could possibly be declined service.  

That is as a result of eating places in South Korea want teams of two or extra, owing to a fancy mixture of native social dynamics, revenue margins and easy logistics — a tableside grill must be cleaned whether or not it serves one patron or 4, in any case.

Solo rejections generally occurred at household eating places and barbecue retailers, two quintessential spots to pattern a number of the nation’s finest delicacies. Solo diners might circumvent it in two methods: by putting an order for 2 or agreeing to a minimal spend.  

Nonetheless, with the expansion of one-person households in South Korea, extra individuals are selecting to dine, drink and journey alone — embracing the “honjok” life-style development that has visibly taken root within the nation.

Hongojib is in contrast to most barbecue locations in Seoul.

Situated within the full of life neighborhood of Yeonnam-dong, the restaurant — and its predecessors, comparable to Sinssi Specific and Hongo — have swapped conventional communal eating for the rising development of honbap, or consuming alone.

Diners eat at counters quite than spherical tables. And dishes aren’t served household type — every diner is given private settings for condiments and cutlery together with their very own grill.

Orders are positioned and paid for with tablets. And meals — alongside a cluster of traditional banchan, or aspect dishes — is served inside minutes.

Marianne Lee, a Korean training marketing consultant, stated this type of consuming is a change from the times when “everybody has to eat in groups, everybody has to drink collectively, everybody has to go for a similar menu.”

“If you happen to wished to have a Chinese language meal, but when your supervisor says let’s go for Japanese noodles, you’d haven’t any alternative however to go,” she stated. “However these days, folks respect having their very own time.”

With a following of greater than 40,000 on TikTok, Lee — who stated she’s spent equal components of her life in the UK and South Korea — is widespread for her movies about Korean tradition, from bus etiquette to the most effective time to go to the nation.

In her movies, she recommends solo vacationers attempt eating places comparable to Labap for positive eating, or Gimbap Cheongu and Pomato for his or her large number of Korean meals.

The latter two “are open 24 hours and promote tteokbokki, rice dishes, soup and different scorching cooked meals,” she stated, referring to Korean spicy rice muffins.

Lee suggests visiting the favored vacationer spots first, comparable to Namsan, Myeong Dong, Insadong and Itaewon, the place folks typically communicate some English. Multilingual vacationer guides wearing pink coats and hats are there to assist with vacationers’ questions too, she stated.

“It additionally helps whenever you add in a couple of Korean phrases, like hoksi (perhaps) earlier than you ask your query in English,” she provides. Koreans pay attention higher than they communicate, so she feels that it helps to “soften the strategy and we actually recognize it.”

South Korea is widespread with guests from Asia, particularly China and Japan, however guests from Western international locations, particularly the USA, are on the rise. American vacationers have been the fourth-largest supply market till 2019, however catapulted to the highest demographic in 2022, in line with Tourgo, a analysis initiative of the Korea Tradition and Tourism Analysis Institute.

Earlier this yr, South Korea introduced a brand new visa for digital nomads is within the pipeline. The visa, which might enable foreigners to remain in Korea whereas working remotely for an employer abroad, is slated to begin later this yr, in line with The Korea Herald.  

Fortunately, it is now far simpler to discover a place to remain than it was previously.

New co-living firms, like Episode and Mangrove, have been created in response to the rise of single-person households searching for inexpensive locations to stay in Seoul. Some residential buildings enable short-term lodging, which solo vacationers can guide.

I stayed at Mangrove Dongdaemun for a month in a clear and compact room that got here with a workstation, non-public rest room and a view of Mount Namsan.

Not like resorts, there are communal kitchens and coworking areas, plus a gymnasium, yoga rooms, library and even free laundry self-service. An app hyperlinks residents with chat boards and actions like “New Joiner Nights.”

The idea is widespread, stated Mangrove workers member Kim Serin, who added that the constructing is full a lot of the yr. She stated short-stay requests are rising, and that the corporate is working to fulfill this want with new tasks coming in two different widespread locations, Busan and Jeju.

Celib Soonra is one other residence designed for solo residents and vacationers. Stays underneath three months might be booked by way of Airbnb, which is how I booked my keep.

My room was much less cookie-cutter and got here with native touches like a standard tea room, and the rooftop has panoramic views of Changdeokgung palace and Jongmyo Shrine.

Its neighborhood, Gwonnong-dong, is extra intimate too, and the hip cafe-filled Hanok village of Ikseon-dong is however a 10-minute stroll away.

Enterprise resorts, like these from the hospitality model Accor, are additionally working to create hybrid dwelling areas the place vacationers and locals can “stay, work and play,” in line with its web site.

Accor’s Ibis model provides an instance of this. On the Ibis Kinds Ambassador Seoul Gangnam, I might see how small modifications could make an enormous distinction, such because the communal backyard on the resort’s fifteenth ground, the place I labored on days I had tight deadlines.

I additionally slept in an ondol room on the resort, which had heated flooring and conventional bedding, one thing that’s normally discovered solely in conventional homes and hanoks that caters to teams. Close to Gangnam’s Coex Mall, it was additionally a steal at lower than $55 an evening.